Lucy Matilda Cary was the eldest daughter of Joseph Bigelow
Cary of Portland, Conn., by his first wife, Lucy Hodge Cary, a
lady of high character and family. It is in the Cary family plot in
the rear of Trinity P. E. Church, in Portland, that a number of
the Ibbotsons and Forbes of that ilk are buried (https://www.ebooksread.com/authors-eng/arthur-carroll-forbes/the-descendants-of-william-forbes--a-genealogical-and-biographical-history-of-t-bro/page-14-the-descendants-of-william-forbes--a-genealogical-and-biographical-history-of-t-bro.shtml)